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		<title>Another personality test</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 06:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Olentz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know why personality test lately attracts me.. Is it because by nature we want to know more about our real self as we grow older? Inspired by Dion, I decided to took this &#8220;Get to know yourself better&#8221; test. It&#8217;s certainly different than Jung Typology Test, but what interest me most is how this personality [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know why personality test <span style="color: #551a8b; text-decoration: underline;">lately</span> attracts me.. Is it because by nature we want to know more about our <a title="Real Self" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Real_self">real self</a> as we grow older?<span id="more-266"></span></p>

<p>Inspired by <a href="http://dega101.blogspot.com/2009/02/ini-personality-quiz-yg-bener2-akurat.html" target="_blank">Dion</a>, I decided to took this <a href="http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx" target="_blank">&#8220;Get to know yourself better&#8221; test</a>. It&#8217;s certainly different than Jung Typology Test, but what interest me most is how this personality test try to draw a relation between our imagination and our view of the world, education, love and commitment :) </p>

<p>Personally, I think Jung&#8217;s better, probably because it offer complex explanation. Complex ==&gt; hard to understand =&gt; convincing. That&#8217;s what happen to me all the time hahaha. Anyways, I think the result I got was quite accurate, but I got the feeling maybe &#8216;coz they are kinda general and can fit most people. But who am I to judge, let&#8217;s leave that to the expert. Here&#8217;s mine:</p>

<blockquote><strong>Your view on yourself:</strong>
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
<strong>The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:</strong>
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don&#8217;t judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren&#8217;t necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people&#8217;s eyes.
<strong>Your readiness to commit to a relationship:</strong>
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
<strong>The seriousness of your love:</strong>
You are very serious about relationships and aren&#8217;t interested in wasting time with people you don&#8217;t really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
<strong>Your views on education</strong>
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
<strong>The right job for you:</strong>
You&#8217;re a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you&#8217;ll be set for life.
<strong>How do you view success:</strong>
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don&#8217;t succeed. Don&#8217;t give up when you haven&#8217;t yet even started! Be courageous.
<strong>What are you most afraid of:</strong>
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It&#8217;s time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
<strong>Who is your true self:</strong>
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.</blockquote>
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		<title>a question of self</title>
		<link>http://www.olentz.net/blog/2008/04/30/who-am-i/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 08:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Olentz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend once told me that I am &#8211; without doubt &#8211; an introvert. And I kinda just swallow it, and accept that as my reality. Whenever people asked me about my personality, I answered &#8220;well,I&#8217;ve heard that I&#8217;m an introvert. True or not, you&#8217;ll be the judge&#8221;. But I cannot recall whether I ever actually did the personality test. Now here [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend once told me that I am &#8211; without doubt &#8211; an introvert. And I kinda just swallow it, and accept that as my reality. Whenever people asked me about my personality, I answered &#8220;well,I&#8217;ve heard that I&#8217;m an introvert. True or not, you&#8217;ll be the judge&#8221;. But I cannot recall whether I ever <em>actually</em> did the <a href="http://equation.net/blog/2008/04/25/personality-test/" target="_blank">personality test</a>. Now here I am &#8211; 4 am in the morning &#8211; decided that I should at least give it a run before coming to that conclusion.</p>

<blockquote><strong><a href="http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp" target="_blank">Jung Typology Test</a></strong>
INFP &#8211; Introverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiving
<em><a href="http://keirsey.com/handler.aspx?s=keirsey&amp;f=fourtemps&amp;tab=3&amp;c=healer" target="_blank">Famous people of your particular type</a></em>
Princess Diana, Michel de Montaigne, J.K. Rowling, Anton Chekhov
<strong><a href="http://www.eggheadcafe.com/articles/mb/default.asp" target="_blank">Jungian Type Test</a></strong>
INFJ &#8211; Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging
<em>Careers</em>
Counselers, clergy, missionaries, teachers, medical doctors, dentists, chiropractors, psychologists, psychiatrists, writers, musicians, artists, psychics, photographers, child care workers, education consultants, librarians, marketeers, scientists, social workers.. Blessed with an idealistic vision, they do best when they seek to make that vision a reality.</blockquote>

<p>Let&#8217;s just say that if I want to be the next J.K Rowling,  I would need to define my idealistic vision first. So let&#8217;s jot down the list: world without war&#8230; greener environment.. and oh why of course, <a href="http://userwww.sfsu.edu/~art511_j/emerging.2001.f/ayumimaster/ayumiproject1f/ayumi1.html">Dokodemo door</a>. Yes, that would be ideal.</p>
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		<title>Out from my lovely lurk cave</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 01:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Olentz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is seriously been a while since I write something here. Quite a few number of people have asked me for an update, which I trully appreciate. I know that there&#8217;s only literally a handful of people who read my blog, but knowing that there is actually someone out there who care about the existence [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is seriously been a while since I write something here. Quite a few number of people have asked me for an update, which I trully appreciate. I know that there&#8217;s only <em>literally</em> a handful of people who read my blog, but knowing that there is actually someone out there who care about the existence of this blog always makes feel warm and fuzzy inside :)</p>

<p>So let&#8217;s see&#8230; my previous post was on Jan 28. That was on the 3rd-4th week of my Winter Quarter that I really cheerish. And the reason is just like most of you already know: that was my last quarter! Indeed, I&#8217;ve graduated, and I can proudly put B.S.CSE behind my name. Thank you everyone, I know that without all your supports I wouldn&#8217;t be able to achieve it. <strong>God</strong>, up there, you know that you&#8217;re behind all of this, so just to let you know: Yes, I still remember you! A <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indefinite_and_fictitious_large_numbers">Zillion</a> of thanks for you <a href="http://www.catholicculture.org/library/dictionary/index.cfm?id=34359">Mr. J</a>!</p>

<p>Anyways, my parents were here with me during the awesome graduation weekend and 2 weeks after that. We had a roadtrip to Niagara Falls and New York. Niagara Falls is still amazing as ever (been there in the past), even though when I came there most of the water was still frozen. While for New York&#8230; well, let&#8217;s just say that I have a mix feeling about the city. Some parts of New York are simply majestic &#8211; beautiful &#8211; phenomenal (especially the chinatown food? hehehe..) !! But most of the other part are sadly untaken care of&#8230; The subway station&#8230; man, Singapore MRT and European transit systems are <strong>wayyyyyyyyyy</strong> better than what New York can offer&#8230;.</p>

<p>Ok ok, enough with my rambling. Praise the Lord, I am now working&#8230; still in Columbus&#8230; not Austin&#8230; (hi Vidi! Go bucks!). Life&#8230; is different now.. No more sad homework, no more of those dreaded early morning recitation class, no more final and no more juggling through crazy schedule. Everyday is pretty much the same day now.. except maybe Friday, where everything seems move a tad bit faster ;)</p>

<p>Hmmm, let&#8217;s see&#8230; I guess that&#8217;s all the update I have.. Let&#8217;s hope that my next post is not 4 months from now.. Ciao! <em>lazily walking back to my lurk cave</em></p>
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		<title>Yes, I&#8217;m going home..</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 22:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Olentz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So after a year I&#8217;m going home afterall. You know, the term &#8216;going back&#8217; or &#8217;pulang&#8217; really depends on whose the person I&#8217;m speaking with. If I&#8217;m speaking to someone here (I&#8217;m writing this while waiting for connecting flight in Atlanta) in the states, most likely I&#8217;m refering to going back to Semarang. But whenever I speak to my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So after a year I&#8217;m going home afterall. You know,  the term &#8216;going back&#8217; or &#8217;pulang&#8217; really depends on whose the person I&#8217;m speaking with. If I&#8217;m speaking to someone here (I&#8217;m writing this while waiting for connecting flight in Atlanta) in the states, most likely I&#8217;m refering to going back to Semarang. But whenever I speak to my family or old friends, &#8216;pulang&#8217; really means going back to US. Anyways.. it doesn&#8217;t really matter, does it? It&#8217;s true that I have only one hometown, a city where I spent all my childhood&#8230; a place where all my childhood dreams and memories were written. But seriously, after all this while&#8230; I think I started to call Columbus my second home&#8230; <em>sigh</em></p>

<p>Uhm, I dunno what else to write now, so I&#8217;m putting my journey here, for those who care to read.. I will try to always keep this updated, but of course it depends on internet connection.</p>

<p><span id="more-214"></span>12.08.2007 11:40 am EST Columbus, OH
Thanks to Yunike and Yusi for picking us up (me and my roomies). All of us went to Bangkok for lunch before they drop us in the airport.</p>

<p>12.08.2007 02:35 pm EST Columbus, OH
Departing from Columbus using Delta Airlines. It is a 2 hour flight, which I think I slept for 90% of the time. I was so tired  that I already fell asleep when it was taking off, woke up only when they serve drink and snack (Nip Chee, a cracker made from REAL CHEDDAR CHEESE!), and continue my slumber until everyone <em>suddenly</em> rose up from their seat (yes, the plane is already landing).</p>

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<p>12.08.2007 07:45 pm PT  Los Angeles, CA
Met Riza and the Cathay gang, we had dinner together on the cafetaria. Got rice curry for $7.55, the taste is just ok&#8230; next time I guess I&#8217;ll just go with McDonalds.</p>

<p>12.08.2007 08:10 pm PT  Los Angeles, CA
Met Erwin, line up for our boarding pass and went downstair for the special registration procedure. We had to wait for about 25 minutes, but there were no question asked. Now about the long haul flight to Taipei, Erwin was not kidding when he said that China Airline&#8217;s plane is good. Compared to Cathay, the personal entertainment and seating layout are definitely better, the service quality is about the same, the only thing that I&#8217;m complaining is the fact that I didn&#8217;t bring toothbrush &#8216;coz usually they provide it in the lavatories.. there weren&#8217;t any. Erwin asked the flight attendant, but she never come back. I watched The Transformers, Superbad, Johny Andrean biography, The Simpsons Movie, and an episode of TV Champions about cake. Oh one more thing, there&#8217;s power port on <em>almost</em> every seat, so you can use your laptop on the plane easily: no adapter needed!</p>

<p>12.09.2007 05:45 am NST Taipei, Taiwan
My first time in Taipei :) The airport is quite modern, if you compare it to airport in Indonesia. But they are still wayyyy behind the likes of HKIA, Changi, Schiphol, and Narita. Tried to call an old friend who is now in Taiwan, but I can&#8217;t find the free phone that she mentioned a couple of time in the past. Yep, i&#8217;m that cheap. <em>gets bricked</em> Anyways, I bought myself a plate of &#8216;rice beef&#8217;, which seriously, they should name it &#8216;rice curry beef&#8217; instead. They taste pretty good, cannot beat my goood ol&#8217; (instant) Golden Curry, but it is definitely better than the one I ate at LAX. It costs me NT$250, the same price as what Erwin got &#8211; a bowl of beef noodle. I think his noodle greatly resembles mie tite (pork noodle with shrimp, it&#8217;s one of Semarang&#8217;s local delicate &#8211; and of course, it&#8217;s not halal), but I happen to <em>hate</em> mie tite, so that&#8217;s the conclusion.</p>

<p>12.10.2007 01:50 pm WIB Jakarta, Indonesia
I&#8217;m sweating like a pig! The imigration was &#8211; just as I expected &#8211; very loose. I didn&#8217;t get check for anything, it&#8217;s not like they should have check my baggage, they won&#8217;t find anything, but nobody was checked! My flight to Semarang is at 510, so I have to wait for like 3 hours. The flight got delayed for a good hour, so long story short, I finally step on Ahmad Yani International Airport (yes, INTERNATIONAL airport, we have flight to Singapore, so it&#8217;s international!) at around 7:10 pm. Home sweet home. Mosquitos, ants, traffic jam, fooooodddd, slow internet, just bring &#8216;em all~!!</p>
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		<title>14 years ago</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Nov 2007 04:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was still sitting on the second grade&#8230; SD Bernardus tercinta :) This surely brings back memory&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was still sitting on the second grade&#8230; SD Bernardus tercinta :)
This surely brings back memory&#8230;</p>

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		<title>Forever 21</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy birthday to me&#8230;! Thank you everyone for all the sms-es, poke, wall-post, testimonials, phone calls, gifts, baloon (?) and of course the surprise party. You guys are awesome! Owh, and btw, I know that the bacardi&#8217;s effect to me was a little bit shocking, but no worry &#8211; I wasn&#8217;t drunk or anything. It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy birthday to me&#8230;!</p>

<p>Thank you <em>everyone</em> for all the sms-es,  poke, wall-post, testimonials, phone calls, gifts, baloon (?) and of course the surprise party. You guys are awesome! Owh, and btw, I know that the bacardi&#8217;s effect to me was a little bit shocking, but no worry &#8211; I wasn&#8217;t drunk or anything. It just me and my &#8220;excellent blood flow&#8221; <em>excuse excuse</em> :p</p>

<p>I dunno what else to write now, so I think I&#8217;m just going to paste this lovely poem that I read yesterday. How should I fill the rest of my dash?</p>

<blockquote>The Dash
by <em><a href="http://www.lindaslyrics.com/">Linda Ellis</a></em>

I read of a man who stood to speak,
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
from the beginning &#8230; to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth
and spoke of the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth &#8230;
and now only those who loved her
know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
the cars &#8230; the house &#8230; the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard &#8230;
are there things you&#8217;d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left.
You could be at &#8220;dash mid-range.&#8221;

If we could just slow down enough
to consider what&#8217;s true and real,
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
and more often wear a smile &#8230;
remembering that this special dash
might only last a while.

So, when your eulogy&#8217;s being read
with your life&#8217;s actions to rehash &#8230;
will you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent your dash?</blockquote>

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